With the Christmas season comes reflection on inner peace and reconciliation with anger, resentment, and fear. This is my thoughts on these issues.
Caregiving often disrupts the harmony of a family, especially when the “patient” could be considered an emotionally “toxic” elder. Here are some suggestions on how to cope with a difficult loved one you are caring for.
A time comes in your life when you finally get it…when, in the midst of all your fears and insanity, you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out – ENOUGH!
Being a long distance caregiver is a tough job but with a little creativity – it can be a good experience for all of you. Here are suggestions of how it can work for you including how to start Round Robin Letters for your family.
Do you know someone that is a caregiver? The next time you are tempted to say: “Let me know if there is anything I can do to help” – don’t just say it – do something. Some simple suggestions of how you can help are provided.
Because a vast majority of those being cared for are elderly, a large number represent Veterans of past World Wars. The author reflects on the needs of war Veterans and makes a request to relieve the loneliness of those we love.
The loneliness of the homebound and the importance of visiting with them are explained. Ideas of what to do while visiting are given. Don’t wait — visit today! You will never regret it.
Loneliness is an inescapable part of being human. The sense of being left out, isolated, misunderstood or abandoned are all part of what a care-giver can feel. Suggestions on how to overcome this sense of loneliness are given.
It is important to take responsibility and know that the quality of our lives is determined by our attitudes and choices. Read more about how to overcome negativism.
The phenomenon whereby the Alzheimer patient does not recognize their own reflection is described in a non-scientific way by a caregiver who suggests ideas on how to approach and deal with this aspect of Alzheimer’s Disease.
The role of a caregiver is usually followed by varying degrees of guilt. An examination of the grief process following a loved ones death.
“All people of the universe have the potential to be what they truly would hope to be. Human potential knows no limits and we are all gifted with this potential.” The Dali Lama enables further reflection on this statement and its meaning for caregivers.
